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area rabbis and cantors have
emerged from their synagogues,
breathed some fresh fall air and
rediscovered their families and
hobbies. Cantor Lauren Goodlev of
Beth David Reform Congregation
in Gladwyne rediscovers her
family in a profound way.

After a month of late nights
planning services, sometimes
emailing her rabbi, Beth Kalisch,
as early as 3 a.m., Goodlev
uses the fall to work on a more
personal project: making a family
photo album from the past year.

Goodlev has “three little
babies at home,” as her oldest
son is only three-and-a-half. So
each year, her three boys grow
and develop in visible ways,
and she wants to make sure she
chronicles that process.

On Shutterfly, Goodlev
creates a digital album and fills
Cantor Lauren Goodlev, of Beth
David Reform Congregation in
Gladwyne, with her family
Rabbi Abe Friedman
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Courtesy of Lauren Goodlev
it with family pictures. Then
she pays for several and gets
Shutterfly to send her the real
books. Every year at Chanukah,
she gives albums to her children’s
grandparents as gifts.

She also keeps one for herself
and her husband.

“With our cell phones, we
take so many pictures,” Goodlev
said. “Otherwise, they’ll get
stuck in the cloud and we’ll
never look at them again.”
Rabbi Abe Friedman of
the Conservative Temple Beth
Zion-Beth Israel in Philadelphia
is in a similar situation as
Goodlev. He’s the parent of four
kids 13 and under, including a
year-old daughter.

So once Simchat Torah
ended, he started taking her to
Fitler Square Park, on Pine Street
between 23rd and 24th streets,
every morning. Friedman does
chalk art on the pavement for his
daughter to observe.

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Isaacson did say that Yom
Kippur is a little busier than
other High Holidays, as non-Or-
thodox people come, too, and
the crowd can reach up to 3,000
attendees. But otherwise, the
season is no more hectic than
the months before and after it.

The rabbi said the High
Holiday month might be lighter
than others because there’s less
going on between services.

Once October came this
year, Isaacson started planning
and running more classes.

Beth Solomon operates a small
rabbinical college with seminars
every morning and evening.

“We’re busy,” Isaacson said.

Another more traditional
rabbi, Zalman Blecher of the
Lubavitch of Yardley, a Chabad
center, follows a similar annual
rhythm. For Blecher, just like
for Isaacson, the High Holiday
month is not some climactic
stretch on the Jewish calendar.

It’s the start of a new year.

Therefore, it’s not time to
relax; it’s time to get going.

But Blecher, unlike Isaacson,
does have to work extra during
the High Holidays. He’s often up
until 1 a.m. planning services,
sermons and a marketing
campaign to the public.

Yet Blecher tries not to slow
down too much once the big days
end. This month, the Lubavitch
will resume weekly Torah classes,
start a new class for moms and
babies, hold Shabbat dinners and
even conduct a nature hike at
Tyler Park in Newtown.

“That’s how we’re going to
channel that inspiration of the
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“I fell into doing this because
we were there in the park,
and it just went from there,”
Friedman said. “The weather’s
been gorgeous.”
But for Friedman and his
daughter, it’s not just mornings
that they get to spend together.

Now that the rabbi no longer
needs to work seven days a week,
he is his daughter’s primary
caregiver on his day off.

And when she naps, daddy
gets some me time. Friedman
goes down in the basement
to tinker in his electronics
workshop, where he fixes pedals
for electric guitars.

“It’s a little bit sad to see it
go,” the rabbi said of the High
Holidays. “But then it’s like, deep
breath.” Rabbi Solomon Isaacson leads
the Orthodox Congregation
Beth Solomon in Northeast
Philadelphia. As an Orthodox
rabbi, he has a different perspec-
tive than his Reform and
Conservative contemporaries.

For Isaacson, the season
requires almost no extra work
besides giving speeches.

Beth Solomon is considered the
largest Russian synagogue in the
country, Isaacson said. It doesn’t
have a membership model, but it
helps thousands of families, and
many attend Shabbat services
throughout the year.

So when they show up for
the High Holidays, they just
open their prayer books and the
services begin, like any Friday.

“You don’t have to tell them to
stand up or sit down. You don’t
have to call out page numbers,”
Isaacson said. “They know what
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$725,000 in donations between
Aug. 14 and Sept. 21, Executive
Director Cathryn Miller-
Wilson said.

The monetary donations
to HIAS PA are the tip of
the iceberg. HIAS PA has
long partnered with area
synagogues to
organize supply drives for refugees and
newcomers, and the Jewish
community’s response to the
arrival of the Afghan evacuees
was no exception.

“There’s a role the
community — the Jewish
community — can play,” said
Judi Bernstein-Baker, former
executive director of HIAS
PA and a member of Mishkan
Shalom, one of the synagogues
with which HIAS PA has
worked. “We have a sensibility
for this. Didn’t we go through
this? It’s almost in our DNA.”
“The amount of stuff that is
in our building is both heart-
warming and overwhelming
at the same time,” said Amy
Krulik, executive director of
Main Line Reform Temple in
Wynnewood. MLRT has partnered
with HIAS PA for almost 13
years, accepting donations of
blankets, kitchen appliances,
dishes and gift cards.

Since mid-Aug ust,
MLRT volunteers have been
overwhelmed with donations;
they rented an off-site storage
facility to accommodate the
supplies received.

Previously, MLRT mostly
relied on donations from the
community. After the fall
of Kabul, Krulik said that a
“caravan of cars” from people
across the area lined up at the
synagogue with donations.

She received hundreds of calls
asking if people can donate to
HIAS PA through MLRT.

More donations meant
more help was needed to sort
through the supplies, ensuring
that they were of appropriate
quality to give to evacuees.

Linda Brock, an MLRT
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donations to HIAS
PA, but after the fall of
Kabul, the synagogue
is taking a different
approach to helping
evacuees. On Oct. 6, Bernstein-
Baker, who’s a member
of the congregation’s
Refugee and Immigrant
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teered to help HIAS PA Lawyers pro bono committee,
through the synagogue for 11 held a training session for
years, said volunteer numbers congregants interested in being
have doubled since August, sponsors for Afghans still in
from five to 10 or sometimes Afghanistan or a third country.

12. Along with congregant
Being a sponsor allows
Adele Margulies, Brock has someone to provide referrals
delegated tasks and trained the to Afghans applying for social
newcomers. services and doesn’t necessarily
Brock and Margulies entail supporting an individual
usually work alongside volun- financially.

teers from the synagogue, but
Recruiting sponsors for
now volunteers are “people Afghan families is particularly
from churches, people who challenging. The U.S. immigra-
have worked in other organi- tion system was not designed
zations, people who read about to assist in this type of human-
us and call and offer [to help].” itarian crisis, meaning that
For Brock, it’s crucial sponsor application forms
that the quality of the items don’t completely align with the
sorted for donation to HIAS needs and circumstances of the
PA doesn’t falter due to the Afghan community, Bernstein-
overwhelming amount.

Baker said.

Blankets and sheets cannot
HIAS PA is also feeling
be frayed or stained. If they frustration around the limita-
are, they are donated to local tions of the U.S. immigration
animal shelters rather than to system. It is equipped to take
evacuees. in more than 100 evacuees, as
HIAS PA also wanted to is Nationalities Service Center
ensure that the items given to Philadelphia, which is reset-
evacuees are culturally appro- tling 200 evacuees. However,
priate and useful. Single-use they are unable to now because
kitchen appliances like waffle the resettlement pipeline is so
irons are a no-go, as are wine slow.

glasses and bottle openers, as
The federal government
many of the donation recipi- authorized
humanitarian ents are Muslims who do not parole to be given to Afghan
drink alcohol.

newcomers, which is an entree
“Everything needs to be visa for evacuees but does not
really in pristine condition provide a legal status, such
because it’s the way you would as refugee status, that would
treat a guest,” Krulik said. “It’s allow evacuees to be eligible
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A backlogged asylum appli-
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arriving Afghans, applying for
asylum, which gives similar
benefits as refugee status, could
take years.

Because of the lack of
government assistance to
evacuees, HIAS has to take a
greater intervention, providing
housing, groceries
and prescription drugs.

“These folks have no way to
support themselves, no way at
all,” Miller-Wilson said.

The sheer number of
donations have put stress on
HIAS PA and MLRT, who
are requesting a pause on
donations until 2022 unless
they are contacted beforehand.

However, HIAS PA has a
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