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the only two to survive. Now,
two years later, although life
is forever changed for both of
them, they remain strong and
resilient, determined to infuse
their lives with meaning.

Although some of their
injuries are permanent, both
Leger and Wedner say they
have adjusted.

“I’m doing well physically,”
said Leger, a retired nurse and
UPMC chaplain, who was shot
in the chest. “Some days are
better than others. I still have
some physical problems that will
probably be around for the rest
of my days that are the result of
this. But I’m alive, and they are
manageable, and here I am.”
Wedner, a former dental
hygienist, who was shot in the
arm, acknowledged her hand
“is not going to be 100 percent,”
but she does have use of it.

“Some things are a little more
challenging,” she said. “I’m
grateful to have my arm and my
hand. So I just deal with it.”
Both are grateful to have
survived, and are resolute to
get the most out of life.

While the pandemic has
caused each of them to shift
some plans — Wedner and
her husband, Ron, planned
trips that had to be canceled,
and Leger’s plans to provide
nursing services to the under-
served are now on hold — they
are both filling their days with
activities that bring them joy
and fulfillment.

As he did before the
pandemic, Leger volunteers
with the CheckMates program
through AgeWell Pittsburgh,
making calls to those who are
homebound. He also checks in
with members of Dor Hadash
and is active on the steering
committee of the 10.27 Healing
“Life goes on. You have to keep going. My
mother would want us to do that and I have to
live on for her and through her.”
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Partnership, which helps those
impacted by the shooting and
others who have experienced
trauma induced by hate. And
he writes a lot, especially poetry.

“As Jews, we’re not supposed
to really retire,” Leger said.

Wedner, who is also on the
steering committee of the 10.27
Healing Partnership, fills her
days babysitting her grand-
daughters, baking, taking
walks, reading and keeping in
touch with family and friends.

In the weeks and months
following the shooting, Wedner,
like others who were directly
impacted by the massacre, was
showered with messages of
love and support from the local
community, as well as from
around the world. She is still
feeling that love, which she calls
“the key to my healing.”
“I’ve met so many wonderful
people from this,” she said.

“And it’s enriched my life.”
As the two-year commemora-
tion of the shooting approaches,
Wedner anticipates spending the
day with her family.

“I know last year, leading up
to it, and that day, I heard from
so many people, and it was
really helpful,” she said. “It’s so
helpful that we get the support
we get from family, friends,
just the community.”
Leger is trying “not to
overplan,” for Oct. 27, 2020, he
said, anticipating he will spend
the day with his wife, Ellen,
and Miri Rabinowitz, whose
husband Dr. Jerry Rabinowitz
was killed during the massacre.

“I’m trying not to overthink it
and to let whatever emotions
come my way have a place to be.”
He has, though, been trying
to “fill in some blanks,” he said.

Not only has he finally started
to examine, and process, his
medical records concerning his
injuries, but he is also trying to
identify all “the helpers.”
“I’ve met with some of the
police officers who have been
involved, who came to help, and
it led me to reach out to the
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Dan Leger 
Photo by Adam Reinherz
Public Safety department to try
to get a list of just who were
all the people who were there
that day,” he said. “Who were the
helpers? Who came? I’m begin-
ning to compile those names and
it is just an extraordinary list, an
extraordinary number of people
who ran in our direction. They
didn’t run away. They ran in our
direction and they came to help.”
He hopes to be able to
reach out to some of those
people, and, if he is allowed,
to acknowledge them publicly.

The trial of the gunman still
has not been set, the delay due
in part to the federal govern-
ment seeking the death penalty.

While Wedner does not spend
a lot of time thinking about the
eventual trial, Leger finds its
delay difficult.

“It’s a prolonging and
agonizing process that needs to
come to as much closure as it can,”
he said. “When people lose their
lives, the people who lose those
people from their very existence
don’t have the opportunity of
closure. But there are opportu-
nities for closure about certain
elements of the experience.”
He is trying, he said, to
“learn as much as I can about
why it is that we have such a
proclivity in our culture for
Andrea Wedner
Photo by Ron Wedner
not being able to communicate
well enough so that something
like this can be avoided.”
There are many opportu-
nities, Leger stressed, to honor
the memories of “the beautiful
people that we lost that day, things
like learning opportunities and
service opportunities. If anyone
ever thinks they need an excuse
to do something good, think
about one of these people and
do something in their memory.

That’s how we keep them alive.”
For Wedner, the memory
of her mother, Rose Mallinger,
is constant. She remains an
inspiration and she is “always
around.” “Life goes on,” Wedner said.

“You have to keep going. My
mother would want us to do
that and I have to live on for her
and through her. A lot of the
things I do and say, I think of
her. She’s always there. She keeps
me going. She was a strong lady,
so I think I may have inherited
that from her. She was pretty
amazing. She was a hoot. She
was something, she really was. I
miss her. We all miss her.” l
Toby Tabachnick is the editor of
the Pittsburgh Jewish Chronicle,
a Jewish Exponent-affiliated
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seen a significant increase in
community members reaching
out for support since the start
of the pandemic, a trend she
expects to continue.

“I would say we’ve seen,
between March and August,
500 new households. We
typically average 24 new
households a month, and now
we’re averaging 72 households
a month,” she said.

JRA clients receive a 15-pound
box of food on a monthly basis,
and the agency has recently
added safety supplies like hand
sanitizers, masks and toilet paper
to the relief packages. Last month,
JRA packed and distributed 3,865
boxes of food and 100 toiletry
bags. Before the pandemic, the
average number of monthly boxes
packed hovered between 3,200
and 3,300.

Increased need for food
means increased need for JRA
volunteers and staff.

“We have this incredible
group of volunteers that we call
upon, and we also are always
asking for more volunteers
from the community to help us
get all the food we’re packing
out to individuals in the
community,” Roth-Saks said.

“And the thing that we’re doing
to help us be successful right
now is we’re relying on the
volunteers to actually deliver
the food, but we’re also relying
on a new labor force that we’ve
hired to help us pack all the
food.” Due to social distancing
requirements and safety proto-
cols, the number of volunteers
allowed in a warehouse at a
given time is limited, which
slows the packing process
significantly. Roth-Saks knew it
would take more than volunteer
shifts to meet the growing need
for food, so the organization
hired contracted employees
to speed up the process. In
addition to food packers, the
organization hired warehouse
cleaners to make sure the work
environment is safe.

An expanded staff and
expanded inventory can’t
happen without expanded
JRA volunteers make a delivery to a client’s home.
JEWISHEXPONENT.COM funding. Roth-Saks said JRA
has been able to bring in more
funds via grant writing and
partnerships and plans to host
its 20th annual fundraising
event, “Whatever It Takes: A
Livestreaming Show to End
Hunger,” on Oct. 25.

Brian Gralnick, director
of social responsibility at
Jewish Federation of Greater
Philadelphia, said most of the
organization’s agencies antic-
ipate an increase in clients as
long as there is no vaccine.

Mitzvah Food Program is
looking into setting up more
outdoor pickup points with
tents and portable heaters
for volunteers, as well as
maintaining food delivery
outside their pantries. Gralnick
also said KleinLife is keeping
an eye on the impact of colder
weather and mental health
concerns for senior clients who
have been isolated for months.

Hebrew Free Loan Society
of Greater Philadelphia, which
provides community financial
support in the form of loans,
Photo by Elvera Gurevich
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has created a new COVID-19
loan designed to help people
address short-term costs.

“We didn’t want people to
take on additional and uncom-
fortable debt, but it just might be
that bridge in a short-term diffi-
cult financial situation or to solve
a really immediate problem,”
said Amy Krulik, president of
the board of directors.

She is anticipating that
the pandemic will linger for
at least six months to a year.

The organization is planning
accordingly, but the economic
uncertainty makes it hard
to predict what kind of loan
requests it will face in the
upcoming months.

“What I suspect is that we
may find some requests from
some unexpected places,” she
said. People may take out fewer
loans for cars and more for
home improvement, as more
time spent at home puts more
pressure on plumbing and
heating systems.

Jewish Family
and Children’s Service of Greater
Philadelphia staff
have carefully monitored eviction
moratoriums for clients strug-
gling with housing payments.

Courtney Owen, JFCS’
director of individual and
family services, said that
although moratoriums have
helped delay rent payments,
they haven’t solved all housing
issues, and renters who have
benefited from the morato-
riums may still be unable to
pay several months of back rent
and utilities. Owen said it is still
crucial for clients to know their
rights, and access any benefits
they may be entitled to.

She also said JFCS has
witnessed an increased need for
mental health services and antic-
ipates the number of requests
for telehealth counseling will
remain high well into fall
and winter. The organization
maintains a hotline for isolated
seniors in need of support and
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has formed several support
groups on topics ranging from
parenting during the pandemic
to suicide prevention.

The organization is looking
to increase its counseling staff as
it strives to help clients cope with
overwhelming uncertainty.

“Mental health has always
had such a big need in all of
our communities, but right now
it’s something that’s impacting
everybody. And we know that
that’s sort of snowballing the
longer this goes on,” Owen said.

She and her colleagues
encourage clients to take action
before a problem becomes
an emergency, whether that
means keeping up with as
many bills as possible, reaching
out to landlords before back
rent comes due or seeking
mental health counseling.

“We don’t want people to
wait until it becomes a crisis
point to reach out to us,”
Owen said. “If people feel like
they need financial or social
support, or they’re unsure of
what to do right now, or they’ve
lost their job or have any situa-
tion that could be supported
and they’ve maybe never
reached out for help before
that, we’re here. Those are the
individuals that we really want
to connect with, because the
sooner we get involved to help
somebody, the better we can
meet their needs.” l
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