Th e Ring’s th e Th ing:
Do’s and Don ’ts of Engage ment Rings
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J ohn Anthony Jr. sees it happen all the time: Someone walks
into his shop asking to see Gemological Institute of America-
appraised diamond engagement rings.

Small problem — that’s not a thing.

“What they do is gem reports,” which Anthony said grades a
diamond on clarity, color, cut, carat weight, proportions and fi nish.

It does not assess monetary value and, if a store claims otherwise,
“turn around, get out of there, because these people have no idea
what they’re doing.”
For many young couples, an engagement ring is the most
expensive purchase they’ll make up to that point in their lives. As
such, it’s important not to make a mistake. Diamonds are forever,
but trends are not, and neither are bank loan extensions.

So here’s what a few Philadelphia area jewelers had to say in
regards to engagement ring shopping.

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Anthony, owner of John Anthony Jewelers in Bala Cynwyd and
president of GIA’s Pennsylvania-Delaware Valley chapter, advised
people to buy from a jeweler who is an accredited member of the
GIA, the American Gem Society or the National Association of
Jewelry Appraisers.

If a shopper isn’t an expert on diamonds, it’s important to buy
from someone who is.

Or as David Rotenberg, owner and operator of David Craig
Jewelers in Langhorne, put it, “If you don’t know jewelry, then
know your jeweler. Diamond shopping is not a one-two-three.

Th ey need someone who’s going to hold their hand and take them
through the process. Th en they can make an intelligent decision.”
Rotenberg told shoppers to “buy the best you can, the best you
can aff ord.” While cheaper options may be available online, it’s
important to keep in mind exactly what you’re paying for. Lower
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prices can be an indicator of lower quality or unpop-
ular designs. An engagement ring is something a
person, presumably, will wear every day for the rest
of their lives. Something to consider is getting a ring
that’s durable and won’t need constant repairs. Th e
extra money can be worth it in the long run.

On the other hand, Eric Sack, owner of the
former Sack’s Jewelers in Jenkintown, advised
customers to not go over budget.

“Never ever spend more than you can aff ord,”
Sack said. ”Especially for younger couples, don’t
spend more than you can write the check for at
that moment. Never extend yourself. Th ere’s always
going to be a future. Th ere’s always going to be
another opportunity to express your love in gems
and precious metal. Don’t start out in debt.”
For whatever amount people do plan to spend,
Sack suggested to put as much of the budget into
the gemstone as possible as opposed to the rest of
the ring. Th e engagement ring, according to Sack,
is symbolic of a lifelong commitment. As such, he
encourages people to get one that is timeless as
opposed to trendy.

“If the wearer chooses to change the setting —
and that’s not unusual — maybe fi ve, 10, 15, 20
years down the line, they’re sometimes surprised
at how little value that mounting had,” Sack said.

“Th at gem is always, basically, going to retain its
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