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Jewish children, the tragedy
in Atlanta led me to fear for
the safety of my children. It’s
the kind of fear that you not
only comprehend in your head,
but one that you physically feel
course through your veins.

My children will grow up in a
society where some people may
hate them because of the color
of their skin and others may
hate them for the faith that
they believe in (and, of course,
there are plenty who would
hate them for both reasons). As
a mother, I was left with two
big questions. How do I keep
my children safe from the hate
that Asians and Jewish people
experience on a daily basis in
the United States? And how
do I best educate my children
on a society where people are
hated or victimized for their
race and/or their religion?
I’m embarrassed to admit
this, but my first reaction when
thinking about how to best
protect my children from the
Asian and Jewish hate that they
may experience was to flee. After
my initial shock over the Atlanta
shootings, I found myself
dramatically proclaiming to my
husband that I didn’t think that
the United States was a safe place
for our family anymore. Sure, it
was an extreme reaction to what
had happened, but perhaps it
was the “fight or flight” reaction
to fear that led me to choose
“flight.” In the past, my husband and
I have talked about moving to
a different country — particu-
larly to China or Taiwan, given
that I still have many extended
family members there. It’s an
idea we’ve addressed with more
seriousness in the last year as
COVID-19 has created more
remote work environments.

Now that anti-Semitism has
hit an all-time high and Asian
hate crimes are increasing in
the United States, perhaps it is
time to make this move?
And yet, upon further
reflection, I recognized that
fleeing the country is not the
answer. In this dark time, I
am reminded of the Jewish
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repairing the world — the idea
being that although the world
is a good place, God left us
room to make improvements.

I realized that the way to keep
my children safe is to do my
best to make the world a safer
place for them. I’m still figuring
out what this means for me,
and I know that this will be
a lifelong process. But some
ideas I have are continuing to
give tzedakah to charities that
are doing important work to
fight anti-Semitism and Asian
hate, bringing awareness to
these important issues, and
continuing to stand up against
hateful rhetoric.

daughter, Ruth, is named after
her great-grandmother, Ruth.

In the bible, Ruth was a widow
who loyally remained with her
husband’s mother, even after
her husband’s death, choosing
to accept a life of poverty among
people she admired. Ruth —
who is famous for being the first
woman in the bible to convert
to Judaism — the utters the
famous words, “Where you go I
will go; where you lodge, I will
lodge; your people shall be my
people, and your God my God”
(Ruth 1:16). Ruth is an example
of loyalty and devotion, and
true friendship.

Our 2-year-old son, Micah,
was named after his great-
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Evangelicals Misunderstood by Letter Writer
I AM DISAPPOINTED and concerned at the limited under-
standing of evangelical Christians expressed in a recent letter
to the Exponent (“Jews a Means to an End for Evangelicals,”
March 18). I want to set the record straight based on my 25
years’ experience dialoguing and interacting with the Bucks
County Christian Coalition as a member of the American Jewish
Committee. Evangelicals are passionate in their support of the state of
Israel as a Jewish homeland and actively oppose those who would
try to undermine Israel. In addition, they politically lobby against
anti-Semitism in the United States and throughout the world.

The members of the Bucks County Christian Coalition have
always recognized and respected the differences in our belief
systems and have never sought to convert the Jewish members,
although I am certain they would be gratified if we did.

Evangelicals support Israel. They do so with strong beliefs
that differ from ours. However, they are often more vigorous
and politically active in their support of Israel than some of our
fellow religionists. To reject the support of evangelicals for the
My hope is that my husband and I can teach our state of Israel would be, in my mind, an active of narrow minded-
ness, bigotry and lack of proportion on our part.

children to be loyal to each part of their mixed
I feel that the rejection of this wonderful and supportive group
of Christians, based upon the insensitivity of one of its members,
identities. is excessive and unwarranted. I invite the writer to join with us
at our next AJC-BCCC dialogue. This may be a life-changing
For my children, I know it grandfather, Martin. In experience for the writer as it has been for all of us participants.

Dr. Leon S. Malmud | Rydal
will be important to educate the bible, Micah fearlessly
them on their dual Asian and denounced the evils that had
Jewish identities in order to filled his beloved land. As a No Mention of NY Triangle Shirtwaist Fire?
allow them to fully embrace prophet, he elaborates on what
the multi-faceted identities God expects from Israel: “He “Women’s History Month: Remembering the Philadelphia
that they hold. Our family has has told thee, man, what is good, Shirtwaist Strike of 1909” (March 18) was incomplete.

There absolutely should have been a mention at some point —
discussed the importance of and what God requires of thee:
visiting China and Israel (when only to do justly, and to love perhaps at the end — of the New York Triangle shirtwaist fire on
it is safe to travel again) in kindness, and to walk humbly March 25, 1911, in which 146 workers died; some jumped to their
order to help teach them about with thy God.” Micah is an deaths. This was only 13 months after the Philadelphia strike
the history of both of their example of humility, kindness, ended in February 1910.

In particular, the Exponent story had a tragic connection with
cultures, as well as to meet and standing up against evil.

These are all qualities that the sentence, “Fire escapes were locked ... ” That was a major
others that are both similar
and different from them. My we aim to impart on our reason for the New York deaths. l
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husband and I hope to raise children. My hope is that my
them to be open-minded and husband and I can teach our
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