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they get to serve their guests.

From “a five-minute interaction
with doughnuts and coffee” at
Federal Donuts to “a drawn-out
meal at Zahav,” “we want to be
able to do it all,” he said.

Lilah, the Hebrew word
for “night,” encompasses the
feeling of jubilee that Cook and
Solomonov hope to achieve at
their new venue.

“Night is when the magic
happens,” Cook said. “The sun
goes down, and that’s when
these special moments occur.”
CookNSolo’s Director of
Events Neira Jackson hopes that
Lilah will provide guests with
an opportunity to use a venue
that is more personable than a
hotel ballroom. With exposed
brick walls and an “airy” layout,
Lilah will offer a modern take
on an event space, she said.

CookNSolo have had the
idea for Lilah since 2019,
but COVID-19
restric- tions challenged Cook and
Solomonov to reconsider
how they wanted to run their
business moving forward.

“We got a chance to really stop
and reprioritize the things that
were important to us as a restau-
rant group,” Solomonov said.

Zahav is now closed two
days a week, and staff are paid
a starting wage of $16 per hour.

“We’re a better company,
actually,” Solomonov said. “I
feel like the style in which we
serve, the way that we’ve prior-
itized guest experience and the
team’s experience has really
lined up nicely.”
“It’s OK to step out of the
box, it’s OK to try new things,”
Jackson added. “That’s the one
thing that COVID did — it
made us push our boundaries.”
Though Lilah’s small team
of chefs is still developing
dishes, CookNSolo plans on
A rendering of Lilah’s exterior
creating an extensive, custom-
izable tasting menu with both
new fare and returning favor-
ites, such as pomegranate lamb
shoulder with crispy Persian
wedding rice.

Guests can expect a carving
Courtesy of Danielle Mulholland
station, pita sandwich station
and dessert buffet, along with
traditional salatim, or salads,
and inventive dishes such as
foie gras baklava.

“We’re really excited for
this new chapter,” Cook said.

“And to be this core part of
this community: Philadelphia
at-large, Philadelphia dining
and the Jewish community.” l
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Abby Stein Advocates for Transgender Pride
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SASHA ROGELBERG | JE STAFF
WHEN RABBI AND trans-
gender activist Abby Stein was
growing up in her Chasidic
community, there was no word
for “transgender” in her first
language of Yiddish.

Stein said that she did not
witness homophobia or trans-
phobia in her community, but
instead had no knowledge
that queer or transgender
people existed.

“I wish I had a teacher when
I was 10 years old who would
tell me how terrible trans
people are, and that we’re going
to hell,” she said. “At least I
would have known that people
like me exist.”
In her June 3 talk over Zoom,
“Journey for One’s True Self,” of Chasidism. She attended leaving her Chasidic commu-
hosted by Hadassah of Greater yeshiva and became ordained nity in 2012, Stein married,
Philadelphia, Stein chroni- as an Orthodox rabbi. Before had a child and was divorced
cled her departure from her
by the age of 21.

Orthodox Jewish commu-
Her 2019 memoir,
nity and the challenges
“Becoming Eve: My Journey
she faced as a transgender
from Ultra Orthodox Rabbi
woman. to Transgender Woman,”
She asserted that LGBT
recounts her life up to that
people in the Jewish commu-
point and includes in the
nity should not just be visible
epilogue the story of when
or tolerated, but celebrated.

she came out to her father
“Tolerance is meant
in 2015.

for lactose or for nuts, or
“My dad never knew the
sometimes, for the choice of
word transgender until I
came out,” Stein said. “It
your friend’s latke toppings,”
wasn’t a matter of accep-
Stein said. “Tolerance is not
tance. He didn’t know that
for people. People, we need
trans people exist.”
to learn to celebrate.”
Though Stein remarked
Stein, 29, grew up in
on the difficulties of LGBT
Williamsburg, Brooklyn,
erasure and lack of support
the sixth of 13 children and
from her family after coming
a direct descendant of the
Baal Shem Tov, the founder
Abby Stein 
Courtesy of Kate Johnson out, she cautioned against
the belief that LGBT people
have only recently existed in
Jewish spaces.

“Regardless of how we have
been treated, we have always
been,” Stein said.

Stein asked her audience of
more than 80 how many genders
existed in traditional Judaism.

As audience members typed
“two,” “four,” “three,” “zero,”
Stein looked shrewd. “I take no
pleasure in saying what I’m about
to say but ... you’re all wrong!”
Drawing on excerpts from
the Mishnah from more than
1,800 years ago, poems from
13th-century rabbis and
kabbalistic teachings, Stein
assured her audience that she
wasn’t making anything up:
There are six-to-eight gender
identities described in Jewish
texts, each with their own
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